MK, the sitch is mistrustful and unstable. However, you are neither. Do not let it touch you. You do not have to be pulled into the insanity. My therapist said something when I was going on about how my H was such a good man, this man is an imposter. She said, "This is the person your H is choosing to be right NOW. You do not have to support him here. You do not have to connect with him here. You support and connect when and only when he is the man you love and married."

Tricky. Boundaries where you need them when you need them. Now I sound like a commercial.


Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9