I'm still doing it

[mkultra]

Yes, I don't know why but I think the Last Resort and Going Dark is really for the LAST RESORT! You still have time to act AS IF, really, you do. Stay positive. Reward positive behavior. Keep the path home a safe one. Don't give a mixed signal now. If he flakes then that is when you put him on a schedule. Don't even think about the OW or her schedule. I know that sucks and I do it too. Hell, I wanted him to take the kids on Mondays and Tuesdays cuz that is when the credit vard bills showed he was going out to dinner!! Silly and contrived. Take the PC and be grateful. Empathy. Be beautiful.