Yes, the fear of the unknown is the scariest part. I think this is because we are still attached even while we strive to be detached. What happens in their lives will inevitably affect ours because we have children with these men. We will always have them in our lives, to some degree, unless they really do just disappear. I don't think they will disappear.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9