I agree with MK. Don't bring up OW or any R talk. Try and establish safe non-confrontational contact when communication opens up a little. For now, continue to lay low. Good job controlling those urges. It is so hard, isn't it?
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9