I'm still doing it

[mkultra]

My first instinct was to accept his gift, his time, his kindness. Try not to reject what he want sto give to you because that may be his way of showing love. Maybe his love language is service. I do not know because I have not read that book, but what if it is true? Isn't that what you want? On the other hand, DR says to make yourself less available. If he does show you the PC, then let him teach you stuff about it. Again, that could be another part of his love language. Keep love and communication alive, Neph. It is such a good sign especially if his self esteem is torn up.