here's another question...its my wifes bday next week. shes inved me to come to dinner w our kids and her sisters family. I don't think she can relax and have fun w me in her precence right now. bcause its her birthday I think she should enjoy herself so I think I should pass on the invite. I bet it will irritate her because I'm sure shell say she invited me for the kids benefit. I'd like to go because we aren't spending much time together right now, but it sort of feels awkward. any tips?
