Scott.....I've been there with the 'talking to the kids'. I would find a quiet time with your W and ....in your best DB mode...let her know that the kids made a comment to you. You can still do this in a non attacking way but plan for a lash out. Validate...don't get dragged into an argument...stay cool. Plan for this. You can just say that the two of you should try and keep things to a minimum in front of the kids, yada yada. Honestly, my W called me on this one once and I regretted that I ever asked my son any info on my W. I will NEVER do it again.

Don't feel bad...my sitch heads south, and, I think I am tired of doing this anymore. After 17 months of trying to save my M....I think I've had enough lying, cheating and dishonesty to last a lifetime. Keep up being strong. I support you. Remember my new quote:
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The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek...


FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;