These feelings are all the result of the emotional beating you have been through! What your H doesn't do....you do to yourself. Hey, I've beat myself up a lot more than my H has.....and deserved every bit of it, but the point is that you are exhausted right now. You two have climbed a very high hill and you are tired. Now, after saying that, I would like to warn you about being tired and "pushing forward" at this time. Perhaps you both need to try to just relax through the weekend and not do any serious R talk. Trust me when I say that timing is everything! You need to get rested and some energy restored and then talk. That's not to mean that you loose what you've gained.....ok? But, just don't "push it" for a couple of days or more.
At least over the weekend, try talking about anything other than the M. Do relaxing things. If he doesn't want to join you, then don't fret and come unglued over it.......go do somehting for you! You need it and you deserve it. Besides, then you will be able to go back and approach him a better woman....lol.
Hope you do have a good weekend and I'll check back with you Monday.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
