I wish DB was actually more prominent in our society. I think most people root for marriages to work out but also most people give wives the advice to kick cheating husbands to the curb and upgrade. I get a lot of messages to find a better, richer, more handsome man. I rarely get the message to wait for my H to come back home.
Yes, I know what you mean, MK. I am so sick of hearing how "resilient" kids are and how I can do better. Sorry, but I know from experience (being a kid from a broken home and S9 with H as stepdad) that kids do best with their biological parents. No one is going to love my kids like their father. Unfortunately, these same people will condone the A and accept that if H was no longer in love then it is understandable to want to be with this new person and be happy. I can hear H's brother and sister saying that they support his decision. It's not good for the kids to be in a home where the parents are unhappy. H has to take care of himself and make himself happy.
Can you believe that blended families are now the norm? I hate that I am being pushed toward this against my will. If H and I D, I am not planning on looking for someone else. I will raise my kids and look for companionship when they are grown. I'm not complicating things any more. BTDT.
Sorry for the high jack, MK.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
