I'm still doing it

[nephartiti]

I think he is buying things because he feels guilty. I don't think anything is loaded. I have the receipt. He bought it at 11:00 AM and was here at 11:20 AM. Everything is still in boxes. He brought his back up drive. He said he would be here tomorrow to back up my files and set up the new PC.

He also mentioned that he used this address for his new Best Buy acct. He said "I hope that's ok. If it's a problem I can change it." I told him it was fine. Then he went on to explain that he had been using his dad's address for cell and stuff and hasn't gotten any of his mail. I don't know if that's true, but I think it is a sign of rebuilding trust by using this address.

MK, we have not discussed us. Last time we did, he did not even want to look at me and basically said no to counseling. He said he was thinking about D (I was stupid and asked him if he wanted one. He said he was thinking about it.) Every time he says how much he misses the kids I want to say, "then come home" but we all know I can't. I don't know if he wants to. I think he feels guilty, but that doesn't mean he wants to come home. He is still going around her schedule and living with her. Only time will tell. His eye doctor left a message here to confirm an appt for tomorrow at 9:30 AM. I thought it was strange that they called here. I have tried really hard to make it safe for him to speak to me. I try not to question what he is doing or with who. If he speaks to me, I listen and try to be supportive. If he talks about his family, I ask how everyone is and send my love. I just act As If I am a friend and not a very close one. I don't expect too much, and I don't pry.

Actually, I feel a little uncomfortable accepting this as a gift. I just don't know if it's appropriate.

Question: Should I stay while he sets up the PC tomorrow, or should I leave?