I wish DB was actually more prominent in our society. I think most people root for marriages to work out but also most people give wives the advice to kick cheating husbands to the curb and upgrade. I get a lot of messages to find a better, richer, more handsome man. I rarely get the message to wait for my H to come back home. I knew this would be the case so I tried to keep my sitch private but it eventually got out that I was "available". Which in my heart, I am not. I also see that many men that are dating at my age have already been married and the same issues seem to arise. The issues of parenting, sex starved Rs, lack of communication, etc. What makes peopele think they can start over without the same issues?
I honestly do think I could more successful with my H than with someone new and that really saddens me because he is so rude to me. He crossed the line a looongtime ago. My BFF was shocked that a man would call me a B. She said a man has never called her that. I have never been struck by a man, and she acted like it was that shocking. As strong women, we just are not familiar with battered wives. I felt like crap admitting it, even now.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."