so you both think I should have gone ahead and asked how he was/what was wrong?
I'm trying my hardest to detach from this man, and damn, this kind of stuff keeps me so roped in. I'm not sure its healthy for me, hence the avoidance.
tonight he went home to OW's. tomorrow I will see him when he takes the kids for the weekend. I suppose I could call him now. or better, maybe should e-mail him?
do you really think this is wise at all? I just went thru the "I don't want to know about your personal life/ don't ask about mine" conversation again. will that cross on my own boundery?
eta, dom, not sure how much you know of my story, but trust me, I have been there for each and every emotional breakdown this man has had. I have been there, I have listened/supported/tried to help with each and every one.
you are dead right, btw, that the hardest part for me will be to shut up and just listen. I am getting better at it, but wow, is it hard.
Last edited by morgan; 10/05/0712:44 AM.
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