There and Back, #8

[Dom R]

not sure I can handle having him come here to actually see the kids, though. I'm not. I will lose it if I see him, and that is NOT a good idea, right?

I would suggest not writing off the whole day, just because of a "what if".

you probably wont. but even if you do.. it's not the end of the world.
If you were a GUY, it would be sad. But one of the last vestiges of the old gender doublestandard is: if a woman breaks down into a teary mess, either at a wedding, or on an anniversary date:
A guy will think, "oh well, she's just being a woman"

aint nothing wrong with that.