Jak,

Sorry it took so long to respond.. Got involved in cleaning...

Anyways, yes I can tell but your aloud .. i would probably come out and ask too, don't know if that is against dbing, but sometimes you have to do what you have to do. The waiting and wondering is the hardest part. But you need closure, to find out where you stand, its the least he could do is tell you what is expectations are, or plainly if he wants to be with you and stay in this M. What could it hurt anyway, the worst that could happen is he may back off for a little bit, and you've endured worse than that!

tal


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.