What is reasonable and what is not?

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Things are great with exh and I. He's not giving me a reason to think otherwise by his actions and words.

With that being said, why am I driving myself crazy still trying to play detective? I am constantly looking at his cell bill online and seeing how many minutes he talks (I don't know details till after statement comes out) or how many text messages he sends and recieves. Why is it when he leaves my house to go home I wonder "is he going to call her?" OW is a teacher at my exh's kids school and I wonder on the days that he picks them up..."are they standing there talking? Does he miss her when he sees her?"

I am literally driving myself crazy. I know its only been a few weeks with no issues, but I want to relax. Do you ever stop snooping? I am worried that if I stop snooping and believe what he says and does that I may be fooling myself that he could be living two lives.