well, today won't be the day was another stinker. It seems everytime H comes from T he becomes more belligerent. I know they are working on him being more assertive and be able to speak his mind, but now it is just an offense if I dissagree with him, like stuff about the kids; it's like I shouldn't dare to dissagree because he's "made a call of judgement " and I shouldn't say my peace.
Yea, on the past I've said my peace enough and he was the one always avoiding conflict, which led to him internalizing everything and then explodign when he left.
Yes, it's good for him to learn to express himself, but half the time he's coming off pushy. I have a temper which i'm trying to keep in check, I worked and work hard on being patient and listen when he talks, but i'm finding it increasingly impossible to be calm when he's acting like mr-dont'-contract-me. GRRRRRRRRRR
Good thing i'm not going home right away, going out w/a friend, i'm pretty ticked off right now. Breath in- breath out....
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
