disappointed, going nowhere means you're not moving backwards.
I know the fear you're talking about. I have it to. My xh is constantly reiterating that we're 'just friends'. Looking back over the months (and I mean months) though, and I can see the progress. It's just very gradual.
My one thought...if you're concerned things are too comfortable, you could try an experiment to shake things up. If it doesn't work, you can just go back to the current modus operandi.
The other thought I had...his moving out wouldn't necessarily be a death sentence. (It just feels like it.) Sometimes the space can be clarifying for everyone involved.
