actually, mk, I'm not sure it was good for me. I think I expected everything in my marriage to be repaired like it was in hers...it was almost like I had a checklist of what worked to get hers back on track, and when H didn't act just like my sister did, it shocked me.
my friend had an EA and ended up leaving her H and is very, very happily married to her current H. her current one is the one she had her child with, and who I see her with for life. she tried to work things out with her ex, but he was in no way willing to listen/change/address any issues they had. finally she just checked out. I think I need to accept that H is more like her. even though I'm not like her ex, I think he really is that far gone.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
