For Christmas just about every year I would go to Victoria Secret and get my wife a gift card. My being the physical person her being heartfelt gifts. What was I doing wrong in buying this gift?
Short answer. There was a part of me in that gift. My being the physical guy I wanted to see her in something sexy. What she saw is he is giving me a gift so I can perform for him.
Perceptions.
Now what I want you to do is think back on something your husband did for you but you likely did not respond or appreciate the way he thought you should. Use your new tools and post it here. Yes I am going somewhere with this. It has to be something HE did FOR you and you are really gonna have to think about what was going on in his mind that he missed what you were really looking for. That is the hard part. Good Luck.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
