Okay....I'm going to take my thread back now....hijackers!!
Didn't call or email H at all this morning. H emailed earlier about some tickets we ordered. I waited 1/2 hour and then responded. Then H called me. Talked for quite a while. I thought the convo. was only going to last a minute or two, but I asked how his day was going and he started talking. He talked about that and many other things. He asked me if I'd want to ask one of my co-workers and his gfriend if they'd like to come over on Saturday to watch some college football. My H and this co-worker are both f-ball & Cubs fans and get along well.
H had talked about changing one of his days from 12-9pm to 10-7pm. He told me that his boss had rejected his request to have Thursdays, but offered Tuesdays. H had said no to Tuesdays......because his thinking is that during football season, they often show games on Thursday nights. My response was.....Okay, I understand.......my thinking was that it would just be nice to have you home any day earlier than 9:30 pm, but that's completely up to you. H told me during our conversation today that he'd gone back to his boss and asked if Tuesdays were still available and they are so he'll have an earlier day on Tues. also. YEAH!!
My parents had asked if our D3 would be able to come and stay with them for a week.....well, actually about 4 days. I'd told them that I'd have to talk to H because we pay for daycare no matter if she's there or not. I'd mentioned it to H. He told me today to ask daycare about it and that she could go if I didn't mind. It would be over some of the same days that H is gone to CA with his brother. H said.....well, what are you going to do? He said.....why don't you go to your parents for the weekend and you can just bring D3 back. I told him that I was considering just staying here and going out with friends. I'd meet my parents 1/2 way on Sunday to pick up D3. H said.....Oh, you'd stay here by yourself?......Well, I guess if you want to do that.......with hesitation in his voice.
At the end of the convo., H kind of quieted down and told me he had to go. I was happy & said.....okay then, talk to you later. He okay, love you hon. I told him, love you too.
OMG.....don't know if I can handle two good days in a row!! Of course I can, but I get my spirits up so high that I need to get myself back in check.
NO PUSHING, "AS IF", POSITIVE, HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!
Talk to everyone later!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
I went to a Parent's Night at D3's school tonight. My 1st Parent's Night. It was cute to hear a couple of parents tell me how their girls talk about my D all the time.
Was talking to my niece when H called. Had to call him back. He said that he's been busy tonight, which is good. We talked about Parent's Night and mostly his work. He said he had to go so he could call a customer back that he'd promised to call at a certain time. He said that he was going to go out for a little while after work. Of course that bothers me, but I just said....okay. He said he'd call back a little later. I just said....that's fine. He said, okay, gotta go, I'll call you before I leave.
Just doing my best to keep positive and try not to think about what he may/may not be doing when he goes out. The past few times that he told me where he was going, I did see receipts for those places, but his is mostly an EA, so it's the time spent talking to her that bothers me. Anyway......POSITIVE, Right???
I guess I should go get some things done.
Have a good night everyone!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
Yeah, no call back from H before he left work. But you know what? No big deal!! It would have been nice, but I'm thankful he called at all. It's very much like my H to NOT call when he says he will. Selfish maybe, but that's him.....and I've known that for 17 years....and I'm still here.
I'm headed off to bed.
Good night!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
good night. Just a thought thou. My W would just leave and not say bye at one time. I went throgh that no call time and now she calls me saying she is leaving or is going to be late all the time. I still hold back form calling her but that may change soon. we used to call each othe at lunch time just to say "hey what happening" I had the urge to do that today but I didn't not yet. the times seems right around the corner but not yet good night.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
