Originally Posted By: stu

I found that being direct was the least productive approach,


yeah, but you are a man talking to a woman. whole different ball game ;\)

Originally Posted By: stu
I had to bring it up in a way that didn't make it seem that my W was s*xually deficient.


That's probably always a good idea, though.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle