I got involved with my current H too soon after my divorce and didn't take time to heal.
Just watch yourselves guys. Don't mean to be Debbie Downer.
I can say I definitely will never be getting married again and don't even want to live with any guy especially since I have two young kids. I am perfectly happy with the way things are going with just talking on the phone, going out once a weekend when I don't have the kids and using the other night to go out partying with a friend. No being tied down for me. Nope won't do it.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley