Originally Posted By: alk24
I got involved with my current H too soon after my divorce and didn't take time to heal.

Just watch yourselves guys. Don't mean to be Debbie Downer.


I can say I definitely will never be getting married again and don't even want to live with any guy especially since I have two young kids. I am perfectly happy with the way things are going with just talking on the phone, going out once a weekend when I don't have the kids and using the other night to go out partying with a friend. No being tied down for me. Nope won't do it.


Me: 41
H: 39
D: 6
S: 4
M-14 T-16
first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.)
second bomb: 6-4-2007
(found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything)
Kelley