Yoyo, Hope, AndyV, LWB, Thanks for your support......
Well things are still chugging along here. My W is still pushing for my closing date on refi-ing my house and for my concerns about her crazy settlement proposal. Well my house refi should be done by the end of this month and yesterday my L responded to her L about their proposal.
Now on Tuesday I talked to my L and from what I was told it sounded like we were going to let the courts decide on a lot of the issues, which would prolong this D even further. This really worried me since my L seemed like she was more then willing to push my W into a meltdown... I really do not want to do that.....But more importantly how would that affect my little ladies????? I was relieved to hear from my L yesterday for two reasons: one is that we finally responded to my W L, and secondly my L extended an offer to my W L for the four of us to sit down and iron this out. So....if my W wants to end our M quickly she now knows where my L and I stand. The ball is in her court and if she does heave a meltdown it will be self induced.
Another thing that I should not concern myself with, but, has been weighing on me is that I think my W spent way to much on her new home. I think she is over estimating her CS payments from me and will struggle to keep her new place. I don't care if her standard of living drops but how does this affect my girls?
I have been doing good. Keeping myself extremely busy. I played softball this week on Monday and last night. Last night we slowed down a bit in the run scoring department....we only scored 20+ runs. The previous 3 games combined we scored 100+. No, I am not kidding.
A cute moment from last nights game and no I am not talking about the face plant my teammate made after stepping on home plate. While D5 was playing with a friend at the game, D2 was standing under a tree dancing around and singing. It was a precious moment to watch. Then after I got my girls home I put both of them to bed. While putting D5 to bed I was reading her a book and she crashed out on my chest after only a few pages. I then just laid there and watched her breath for awhile.
