You know, I just can't understand it. It's not like OW is this super model looking type, to be honest..she's not even pretty. I remember seeing her for the first time and thinking "woah, that looks like a man in bad drag!". Now I know that's a horrible comment, and very un christian like, but that's what I thought. So, here's a man (my H) with a pretty cute wife (that would be me), that always smells nice, dresses attractivly, and is offering him a wonderful life...why would he still choose OW? I know it's not all about looks, and we have been horrible to one another in the past..but here's a chance at happiness. Not to mention he's told me that he believes he can't marry her or even have anything beyond a friendship with her b/c of our relgious beliefs. He's even said "I don't want to go to hell". I just don't understand it. And I am admitting to all of my faults and trying to do what's right (watching my attitude, going to church, praying, etc). I am making it SOOO easy for him to come back.
