Maybe your right Grace, maybe we can start again and become friends again and work on communication, it's been 5 months for me so far and it is certainly better for the kids to have him around and maybe in the long run the M as well. You have to learn to live compatably along side one another. I actually had a fantasy about been 'kissed' by H the other day....it's been a long time since I did that - roll over Brad Pitt..
Cinders - did your H leave?
Any way more thoughts.
What things can i put into a plan of action as plans so far have been to work on me and i am seeing huge improvements, but what if the improvements are because he is staying here to live as 'friends'?
If he stays and lives like a friend will a light bulb come on eventually and he decides he does have deeper feelings?
Are the improvements because he now has no pressure to be a husband?
Sorry to panic but I would hate to think that he is here just because i asked him to live as friends. It puts a whole new perspective on things.
Maybe he just needs time and space to sort his head out? He certainly isn't acting as if he is still in MLC mode.
Please, please thoughts?
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P/A confirmed 5/03/08
03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage
T: 13 M: 8 D:20 & 17 from Previous M S: 8 & 4 BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY S: 13/10/07
