"but I am talking about having a solid ground for us to have a healthy R."
Sounds good.
Funny, I've always read the title of this forum to be "D'd but not Done trying to win the WAS back." You read it as "D'd but not Done DBing in my life."
Your interpretation puts a very different forward-moving spin on this forum. Rather than it being a pit stop for people who just can't face Surviving the Big D and moving on with their lives, it instead makes it sound like a place for people who really have moved PAST all the D, XM, XWAS spouse and are looking forward to making DBing a tool that makes their future Rs better in general.
Whether this forum was intended for that, I'd say a forum like that is definitely needed around here There is life beyond "Surviving the big D" which after a certain point just keeps people stuck in constantly relating things to their past troubles, iykwim.
There is life beyond "Surviving the big D" which after a certain point just keeps people stuck in constantly relating things to their past troubles, iykwim.
