Nomopo's Funk? Is that what this is?

[Nomopo]

Hi CVA - once I saw pusher, I figured you had too. Speak up next time, lad.

L2:

I'm going to be doing some 'deep thinking' about this whole Homer thing...

Here's a question for you...how to adapt that to a sitch like mine?

Why do you think you need some sort of special adaptation?

Hi Donna and Kat - thanks for checking in. Kat - of course I'd like to hang with you and CVA. But I have to warn you: my outings have taken a turn towards the immature. I tend to prefer more drinking, more social scenes, more music, more bodies, etc. No more quiet sushi dinners for me - it's now off to mixers at wine bars, mud wrestling, that sort of stuff. Who's in???

Do you mean that by "shaking up" the sitch, you'll be saying you're pretty much done? Is that what you think, or what you think W will think (or perhaps both)?

Actually, it has little to do with concerted effort to affect the sitch or W. It's just that I have discovered the Pusher side of me the last 6 months or so, and I am trying to be cognizant of when he takes over. Often, I don't need to really push, that's just what the pusher does. He makes things happen (whether they need to or not). So my friend Sunny pointed out that on implementing these changes, I needed to ask if i really wanted to do that, or if it was just Pusher firing ahead. I think it's the latter. As an aside, I think Sunny was prompted to ask about it when I told her that in two separate conversations with W about making these changes she said we don't need to rush, we can take it slow. This also made us think about the fact that W has complained previously about my business mode (that's another name for pusher) and how she doesn't like being the subject of that intensity.

Hello Heim and Kelley, and thanks for stopping in.

Nomo