Nomopo's Funk? Is that what this is?

[Nomopo]

Hi CVA - once I saw pusher, I figured you had too. Speak up next time, lad.

L2:

I'm going to be doing some 'deep thinking' about this whole Homer thing...

Here's a question for you...how to adapt that to a sitch like mine?

Why do you think you need some sort of special adaptation?

Hi Donna and Kat - thanks for checking in. Kat - of course I'd like to hang with you and CVA. But I have to warn you: my outings have taken a turn towards the immature. I tend to prefer more drinking, more social scenes, more music, more bodies, etc. No more quiet sushi dinners for me - it's now off to mixers at wine bars, mud wrestling, that sort of stuff. Who's in???

Do you mean that by "shaking up" the sitch, you'll be saying you're pretty much done? Is that what you think, or what you think W will think (or perhaps both)?

Actually, it has little to do with concerted effort to affect the sitch or W. It's just that I have discovered the Pusher side of me the last 6 months or so, and I am trying to be cognizant of when he takes over. Often, I don't need to really push, that's just what the pusher does. He makes things happen (whether they need to or not). So my friend Sunny pointed out that on implementing these changes, I needed to ask if i really wanted to do that, or if it was just Pusher firing ahead. I think it's the latter. As an aside, I think Sunny was prompted to ask about it when I told her that in two separate conversations with W about making these changes she said we don't need to rush, we can take it slow. This also made us think about the fact that W has complained previously about my business mode (that's another name for pusher) and how she doesn't like being the subject of that intensity.

Hello Heim and Kelley, and thanks for stopping in.

Nomo

[L21959]

Hey Nomo --

Why do you think you need some sort of special adaptation?

Since i haven't actually read Homer, maybe the answer is that I don't...

My perceived difference was that most of what I've read about from y'all relates more to a sitch where there is either a physical separation or active movement by the WAS toward S or D. That's not what i've got going on here...No R talk since mid-June; instead, we are stressing over getting our kitchen remodeled!

Maybe what i really need to do is actually read first, comment later. Do I recall that you've got an electronic copy? Care to share???

LL

[Nomopo]

On its way!

Nomo

PS - in your sig, remove the "=link" from the first bracket, ok?

[Kelley]

But I have to warn you: my outings have taken a turn towards the immature. I tend to prefer more drinking, more social scenes, more music, more bodies, etc. No more quiet sushi dinners for me - it's now off to mixers at wine bars, mud wrestling, that sort of stuff. Who's in???


Nomo

Nomo,
We are both living similiar lives now. That all sounds good to me, count me in. I am the same as you now. Drinking like a fish when I go out anymore, enjoying the excitement, heck I want to jump in a mud pit and do some wrestling. When I don't have the kids, I am either hung over, trying to get some sleep in from night before or finding something to occupy my time.

I have to talk to my ma and see if she will let the kids sleep over her place Saturday night. OM asked if I could make it to a party at his friends house, pig roast, bonfire, band. Sounds DANG good to me.

Hey quiet sushi dinners do sound good every once in while.

[Nomopo]

a party at his friends house, pig roast, bonfire, band. Sounds DANG good to me.

Me too!!!!

Hey quiet sushi dinners do sound good every once in while.

Only at very trendy, see and be seen places!! Luckily, we got one of those.

Nomo

[Heimlich]

Great, now I can't get the mud-wrestling scene from Stripes out of my head. Kelley in red thong and see through nighty and Nomo, madly twirling bikinis over his head, yelling "I'm a lean, mean, fighting machine."

And with CVA running around snapping every thong in sight.

BD

[Nomopo]

I also like the Old School (?) scene.

[Heimlich]

Drawing a blank. Was imbibing while watching that one.

[Nomopo]

Will Ferrell is the ref. Two girls de-top, and the old guy (Blue?) dies.

[Heimlich]

Ah. Yes. I was trying very hard not to imagine CVA chasing you (both wildly drunk) because you were wearing a thong with a little bow on the back.