I found out through a mutual friend that WAW didn't appreciate my note. I accused her of having an affair, because the relationship started before the divorce was finalized. Probably not smart. Right now, I just want to know what the kids are doing and where they're staying. She is going out of town this weekend to run in a Marathon. I said that I wanted to know where they were staying and who is going to be watching the kids. I feel that it is not healthy for the kids to be around her boyfriend this soon after the divorce. Any thoughts?
I will get over the OM thing, but it will take a bit of time. This is a long-distance relationship. He lives a couple hours away. Also found out that she vents with her brother at least once per week about what a terrible person I am and how much she dislikes me. Her brother finally said he didn't want to listen to it any more after putting up with it for months. I think the sounding board is shrinking. Any relationship between how much she hates me and my odds of ever working this out? I feel like if this is over in her mind, why does she keep this tirade about me going?
Her circle of friends seems to have grown very small. She only associates with people that are in similar situations or agree with her. Will she ever try to return to her friends? The few times I see her, she seems to have aged and is very bitter and angry. I hope this OM is really just a distraction and I also know that I really need to quit worrying about it. He has already started working on our house when he is there. Seems really odd to be doing this. I know they have also spent some time away over the weekends. She also accuses me of trying to contact her family and friends. I haven't spoken to any of her friends except for a mutual one for many months. I didn't see any harm in talking to her brother. I was Best Man in his wedding.
Anyway - need lots of advice. What is the WAW thinking? She seems like a totally different person.
