Oh Christa I am so sorry! As if it isn't bad enough he has to be mean about it and throw in threats of not speaking to you!? I am sure the cruelty is his way of putting up his defenses and making him feel justified without getting emotional...try not to take that to heart. You know you are a great person and deserve the best! Keep your head up! Is it possible for you to take a day off work? Just know we are all here for you! It is hard, but stay strong and show him you are a woman he won't want to leave. It is not over yet. Remember, most of us on here, including myself, have been told by our S that they wanted a D. Alot of them have yet to take any action there, so don't think all is lost. Now is the time to really work on being strong and happy around him, he won't know what to do!
Me: 30 H: 28 Separated: 06/01/07 D bomb: 07/17/07 after me pushing and pushing! #2 bomb: 08/13/07 Once again, I pushed!! #3 bomb: 01/08/08 Previous Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1322680&page=0&fpart=1
