I understand your tough spot.. will this make him feel inadequate?? I would focus on it being a joint effort and that you both have to make the dollar go a long way and that you really need two incomes to run the household.
This does need to be addressed, Starting your own business, as you know is hard, we are in the same boat.. and if you don't get paid, neither does your bills.. we have the same problem.. so maybe you just need to approach it that way.
good luck honey..
tal
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