I do think he is trying to smooth things over while he works on himself(if he is). Sometimes I wonder if he thinks that if he just pushes stuff on to the back burner that all of the sudden he will feel ok with out having to work thru things.
I will stand my ground. No he isn't or should I say wasn't seeing enough of my true emotion. He is now as im'e being distant and will continue to take it to the next level.(Going out by myself and being mysterious again).
I think he may be starting to see How thin the ice is because I told him maybe we needed a separation (which he didn't want he said.
What makes me mad is the fact that I can't ever have an R talk with him without crying. I cry when im'e mad, or sad, or extremly happy. Don't know if that hurts the sitch or not.
IF it comes to the point that he isn't working enough on this i may do a LRT. Im'e thinking of seeing a A that works for the center here and have him do a letter out-lining D process and my intentions for half of everying accumulated in the M. He has no idea that i saw an A and that i know what to do and what my rights are. I would be financially able to live on my own if we were to D. I know this. That might encourage him work on the M as he would know that i meant bussiness. I would at that point have nothing to loose and a lot to gain(my happiness in life).
I can't make him do this work he has to or we will have no M.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
