Oh, Morgan...I've been there. I knew that my day would not be good, so I went to spend time with a close friend. I didn't speak to my H at all that day, just journaled at the end of the night. I took myself kayaking...it was a beautiful day, the weather was perfect, and I took my camera for some self-expression. It was calm. It was soothing. And although it was bittersweet, it was not devestating.
Two weeks to think about it?! Why do that to yourself? Better to celebrate the gift of the day, just for you. Plan something that you can look forward to, just for yourself. Let H have the kids for the day, or get a sitter.
Drive down to CT, I'll play hooky and we'll sit in a girl's spa for the day, getting massages...