And, Puddle, what's so frustrating is that why the hell don't our spouses realize that "new and easy" will become "old and harder" one day and that today's old and hard can become "new and easy" again.
BD
Heim, I sure don't know. Maybe too many problems created over the years that they don't think that it will ever become easier again. They just don't want to try. H told me in the beginning that he didn't love me anymore, well being blinded by OW of course not, but they say that like they could never fall back in love with again. When first met, we didn't truly love one another, that had to be built but back then we had the infatuation love pushing us together.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
