My "This is under newcomers" is locked - URGENT

[saffie]

I don't know, but he needs to know he can tell EITHER of you anything. He needs to tell his mom if he feels that way. Actually I wouldn't tell her what he said as she may think you are trying to use him to manipulate her. It is much better coming directly from your son to her.

As for tonight after your son is in bed. You need to do something to distract you.

What are your interests? Is there anything you have wanted to do in a while but haven't done because you are married and it wouldn't fit in?

I think I told you before, I do SUDOKU to stop me thinking about other things. Also I think you could do with reading a book I am currently plowing my way through. It's called 'Learned Optimism' by Martin E P Seligman. It's good. He has also written another book called Authentic Happinness that I am going to read next. These books can give you a healthier way of looking at things and explain why you see them the way you do at the moment. They teach you life skills.

Saffie