Thanks Saffie, I actually liked you idea about the cabbage patch doll, you are pretty creative. I will try to do things tonight with my son to distract us. The hard part will be once he is asleep and I lie there all night. This moring my son said out of the blue that he missed mommy (a few minutes after she dropped him off.)I said that was ok and asked him why he was feeling blue when he just seen mommy a few minutes ago and he told me that's because he wants to stay with both of us. That almost broke my heart. I asked him if he ever told mommy that and he said no. I told him everything will be ok. I'm not sure why he confided in me about his feelings on that when he's always been closer to my wife and should I tell her what he said?