When she has strong silences it is NOT up to you to fill the gap - you be silent too and see what comes out of her mouth. She may have been trying to work herself up to telling you something.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength