I don't have a history of infidelity in my family. my sister had an affair 5 years ago, but was able to come out of her fog and save her marriage and they are stronger than ever. I don't know anyone else who has. the closest would be my grandfather, who didn't have an affair per se, rather fathered a child out of wedlock before meeting my grandmother. this was a deep dark secret until after his death about 12 years ago when it came out. my mom is one of 6 kids, half wanted to meet their half sister, half didn't. the half that did eventually tracked her down, and 2 were able to even meet her before her death last year.
my own H used to be so scandalized by the people in his company who had affairs. he knew them all, it all worked its way around the gossip mill, which is why I was so suprised that he thinks his is a big dark secret. guessing more people knew than he realized.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
