Husband,

You are an amazing guy. Yoyo and I though you might think skots was masquerading as your wife LOL!!! . Not really - we just thought you might think that.

I want to say here that my H looked at porn on the internet when we were not being as intimate as we had been. I did feel a bit funny about it but what I felt most was guilt because i had driven him to 'need' to do that because I wasn't giving him the affection / love he needed. Don't beat your self up about this husband.

Your wife may have felt that she didn't look good or rate next to the girls on the porn site. I know I felt that. But one knows inside oneself that these girls are 'plastic shells' and what matters most between a H and a W is the love and caring. I would rather my H looked at porn than went out and screwed another w - which is what my H did do.(Even if it wasn't very good sex). Did you get a chance to explain to her why you looked at the porn?

If she was suffering from low self esteem she probably is now aswell husband. You need to let her know you find her attractive and sexy.She only needs to talk to some of us to tell her how much you love her. We all know that, now SHE needs to know.

How was your W last night?

Saffie


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength