Hope - From day one of him telling me, ow started pulling out all the stops. I know her SIL and so know of some major lies she told my H. Of course, he wouldn't believe me so I just stopped trying to reason with him.
This ow has always made it obvious that she will play 'til death. In the very beginning of the A (before I even knew!), her H said he would forgive her and wanted to work on their M. OW said no.. she wouldn't stop the A. She filed within two weeks of H telling me about the A. That was one week after she told everyone she had cancer (she didn't and then tried to back-pedal and say the Dr. "mispoke" himself). H believes it all!!
Yup.. conniving, evil women who don't care who gets hurt in the process just as long as they win the man.. I always wonder why, when they are single, do they not just find themselves a single man???!!!!