Have you explained to your parents what you are doing and why?
They just want to see you stop hurting. Unfortunately we all know, those of us that are here, that just breaking off from our spouses does not stop the pain.
You must do what you feel comfortable with. It all sucks, and we would all rather not be here. In my case the OW was out of the picture very quickly once I knew about it. Even so I find it hard and that is 15 months on. I am in piecing I guess you would say. My M has changed and while a big part of me wishes all the betrayal had never happened I do think our 'new' R is better than the old one.
You just hang in there and do what you feel is right.
(((((((HUGS))))))) Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
