all quiet in this neck of the woods, yet again I suppose it is the calm before the storm. Just have to share this with you all though, had an old friend of ours/mine on the telephone, we were talking how we do, and in the midst of the conversation she said to me, "you do know that her (that is the skank ow) ex husband goes round to her house quite frequently, gosh shock horror I am amazed, it is so amazing that xh cannot have anything to do with me for as he put it, she doesnt' have contact with her ex, and xh cannot see son without son seeing her, I suppose for the same ruling that she isn't in contact with her ex, wow oh wow how I hope this is true and that her x is going round to the house when my xh is at work, I only hope he finds them in bed together, karma come on over. My friend also told me that on talking once to her xh he commented on how strange her family is and it is like there is no love in the family it is like everything is money orientated. speaks volumes in the way she as got shut of my xh's money. what is her xh doing going round the house whilst her new husband is at work or out the way, I sure don't think for one minute it is for a drink of coffee or to use the toilet. ha ha ha.
Hi Truelove, thanks for checking in on me, I have just read up on your thread and things seem to be going good for you, you have my best wishes and hope it turns out as you wish, take care of yourself and guard your heart. hugs. I feel I am pulling away from the bb quite a lot, I don't know what it is I just feel that he will never come round so I will never get to post good news like you, my life is on hold at the moment waiting for the god damn authorities to get me a house it is then that I will draw the final line and steam on ahead with my own home, don't get me wrong we are not down and dismal just fed up living in this place that we don't consider home anymore, one day I do know that xh is going to fall and regret what he as done, maybe I will never get to see that, who knows all I know is it is too late for him to come to me or our son, the bridge he as burnt is a big one, I do still feel sorry for him and don't think he realises what he as done, I just feel and know that the skank is going to do the dirty on him one day.
Hi Mandyloo, Thanks for your wishes. - I understand how you feel about H, and also OW. I find it so unfair that the WAS always do things with the OW the LBS often asked them to do, and they never wanted to do it.
Hopefully, the authorities will find you some accommodation soon.
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one day I do know that xh is going to fall and regret what he as done, maybe I will never get to see that,
I bet you will. It seems that a lot of MLCers crash one day and wake up. But it usually takes a long time.
Once you will find peace, I am sure your life will be a lot better. I wish you all the best. Have a nice week-end. HUGS
quick update, x and I were supposed to be in court again on monday, the solicitors have been in touch and he as agreed to a lump sum once this place is sold, he as also agreed to leave son's bank accounts alone, he wants me to agree to go along with the sale of this place, ie not tell the potential new occupants all the faults (would I) and to vacate as soon as it is sold, I have told my solicitor to go ahead and agree to this but he cannot expect me to move out as soon as it is sold if we have nowhere to go, I will not disrupt my son's life anymore for this moran, and I will not move out of the district and move him from school. My solicitor also told me that xh is out of work again, that is interesting for a workaholic, he was supposed to have set himself up in business, where's that gone, never thought I would see the day xh didn't work. Thing is he is back to where he was two and half years ago when he jacked in his job, it was then all this lot came to light, so he as now gone a full circle, apart from leaving his lovely wife, I think not.
Are you saying that our H act this way with the OW too? Do they show all this MLC behaviour with them as well. I have really wondered about this. Or are they happy and pleasant with the OW?
There have been sooooo many nights (in the beginning of this) that H has left here in a fit of drunken rage or madness, knowing that he went to her. And I have so wondered if he is dumping this junk on her as well.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
Just a quickie to say I have at long lost got to go view a house on friday, I just hope and pray it is what me and son needs and wants to get away from all this crap, to be able to make it a home and get on with our lives. Heard the other day that ex's new wifey has had three goes at IVF, and they have all failed, how can you walk out and cut off from your only offspring and want to bring another into the world, anyways if it should work I hope she falls on for 6 or so. Oh how so excited I am for friday, to be able to get things moving at last.
I am so happy I now have a place of my own to make into a homefor me and my son. We got the keys yesterday and I was as busy as a beaver cleaning out and wallpaper stripping. Inbetween all this I get a call from my solicitor, I am in court today, this is the follow up to xh's claim to possession proceedings, remember he wanted us out for trespassing, well he as stalled me going twice on the childrens act and it has come round to his turn again, I shall don on my best look and clothes and go in with a smile on my face, as really there is no need for me to be there now I have my own place, xh doesn't and won't know about our new place, but the thing my solicitor told me is that xh won't be in court today as he is trying to keep his costs down, ha ha what a joke, he wants us out of his house he takes it to court and he doesn't want to go to court to see what the outcome will be, or is it because he can't face me again.
