I'm cool w/ having to have an op. I don't worry about that at all. H would not be able to come home, but if it really is only about a week recoup time, we'd be ok. My parents are here and they help me SOOOOO much! They're awesome. I sincerely do not know what I would do w/out them. They lived up in Washington State, but came down for the birth of Reid. They were not w/ me when I had Cade. They were initially going to just rent a furnished apt and stay for about 6 months and then ended up selling their house up there & buying one down here.
They watched Reid until he was a year. They were going to do the same w/ Clark, but both had some health issues come up, so Clark went to daycare a little early, but they are still really close w/ all the boys and help so very much.
My dad was military as well, so I never grew up w/ my grandparents around so I just love that my parents are so close w/ my boys
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
You are so lucky to have your parents so close. It sounds like you have a great support network.
If you can forget about what your H said and acted before. NOW is now and he has changed and seen the changes in you,. You also know that other guys out there like you which must really help with your PMA!!!!!
This piecing is so hard. You know what my ups and downs are like. Don't worry. you are doing great lady!!!!!
(((((HUGS))))) Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
Well, I think I told you that now when I think about H's "friend," my stomach actually turns. It makes me sick to think about him to be real honest!! Yuck. LOL.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
I know that Red but it shows you that you still got the 'IT' factor!!!! And your H knows that. He can see that in you.(Nothing to do with That other creep). Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
Well, finally at work. Really tired. Like I said, couldn't sleep last night and then up at 4 a.m. Oh, well, my hair looks good had plenty of time to fix it. Boys are all in their respective "places." Cat was supposed to have her "surgery" today, but forgot the "no food or water after midnight" thing. Sh*t. Oh well, last thing I need to worry about. LOL. I'll just reschedule it.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Having a "not so good" evening/night. S3 is acting up so badly! I can't seem to figure out what works and what doesn't. It seems to be different each time and I truly think it has to do w/ H being gone and feeilng the need for more attention or something, but I just can't imagine that he's not getting enough and I don't think it's ALL negative b/c of his behavior, etc. It's kind of like a vicious cycle or something.
H, unfortunately, reacted to the news about the hysterectomy the way I thought he would. Maybe I'm reading his reaction the wrong way and maybe I shouldn't have "expected" how he was going to react. It just seemed his tone of voice changed and it's like he's mad at me or something that I need this to be done. I don't get it.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Talked to H this a.m. It's his "Friday night" and Friday a.m. here. He said absolutely nothing about my possible upcoming surgery so I didn't either. I'm hopeful it will be scheduled either next week or the following week so I'll be recoup'ed by the time he comes home in December.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
