Oh, after Clark (19 month son), I got my tubes tied. Some background, I got pregnant w/ Cade (7 yr old) immediately after we got married. Not on purpose, mind you. I wasn't on any birth control and the first time I ovulated, bingo \:\) Don't regret it. I then got pregnant when he was maybe 2 or so, but it was a "blighted ovum" where there's the whole pregnancy, but just no baby. Then w/ Reid (S3), it was kind of like "if it happens, it happens" and it did. Then Clark was a total surprise. When I went in, the doc immediately said "so we'll tie your tubes after this one?" H was supposed to actually get a vasectomy after Reid, but it never happened and bingo (again) that's when Clark happened.

He told me later, he had actually gone to a D lawyer and then we found out I was pregnant w/ Clark. Nice. It was while I was on maternity leave w/ Reid that he told me in a letter all about his previous A's. During the D sitch, he actually told me that he had hoped that I would kick him out then when he told me about everything, but I don't know if that's really true or not.

Anyway, my tubes are tied already so that's not really an issue. 3 boys are enough for us \:\) Love them, but I don't "need" a girl and H certainly doesn't -- he would have a shotgun at the door when she turned 12 \:\)

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10