I am so very sorry about your accident. Are you ok? Still shaken up a bit, I am sure. I am glad OP contacted you to see if you were ok or needed help. And to answer your question, I am sure my H took calls in front of OW. See, I was BLIND this summer, and had no clue they were together as much as they were, so I called him as much as I wanted, and he always answered the phone. I have no idea if he stayed in the same room with her or not, but she was there. Gross. Blecky. I can just see my H rolling his eyes at OW as if to say "Its *her* again".
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How is it that your husband can't let go? Is the OW stringing him along or has she cut it off completely and he's pining?
I have no idea why he won't let go. He says he wasn't in love with her, but I am not stupid, there were a TON of emotions involved. And those type of feelings don't end quickly. OW ended contact with him at least 2 weeks ago, won't take his calls at all (mind you, this is how much I know, who knows what is going on behind my back). My H said she never ended it, just stopped taking his calls. He claims he wants to talk to her, see how she is, etc. He misses their friendship, he says. Well, I told him if he stays with me, he cannot have her friendship anymore, since he crossed the line with her.
And yes, I wish he would have ended it, although I don't know how I would handle it if OW kept contacting him as my H is doing to her. He is giving every right to her H to kick his hiney.
I am sorry you are in so much pain. You are really handling it well, at least towards the OP, and that is the most important. Fake it til we make it.
