muddled and angry: Puddle's third thread

[Puddle]

Hey Nomo!

Hi Puddle. On BB now, but let me try to respond to a few things in the last few posts.

Not sure what a BB is (Blackberry?), but if it's one of those handheld things with no keyboard (you know, the kind I KNOW CVA is on most of the time ), then I'm impressed.

3. Puddle, don't sweat h's not so friendly responses. He is not going to trust any changes at first. You have to be consistent over a period of time. His initial reactin to your change (launched by your email) will be skepticism. Wouldn't yours?

I think what H is probably thinking is something along the lines of, great, she's going to play the game, but what the hell is she really thinking?!

Hope it helps

Always. Thank you.

Hey CVA! Got your cell in one hand and your other technological thingamajig in the other?

Isn't guilt or the spectre of guilt what keeps us from doing all sorts of stupid things in life??? Yes, it absolutely is so people feeling guilt is not all bad.

Yeah, I think that's what they call a conscience. But unfortunately, it's that thing that we can't turn on for the WAS; they have to do it themselves (or not), while we wait (or don't).

At the beginning of all this, H said he wanted to be sure he wasn't in the M just because he "should be," and I thought, "Um, I'm all for the doing things because you should thing." Alas.

It's the idea that it blocks them from feeling affection that I agree with.

Not sure what you mean here. Can you explain?

Just food for thought, no real advice or solution, crap, I was hoping after typing all this on my BB I would have some words of advice or a revelation.

No worries, my friend, I always welcome your thoughts, insights, or plain old ramblings! If you have a revelation, we'll all be happy to hear it, I'm sure! In the meantime, happy boob-shirt hunting.

I had to write acknowledgments today for a book I finished a while ago. It was weird writing to my kids, not H. Oh well.

Take care, all.