muddled and angry: Puddle's third thread

[Not Much Left]

Hey puddle
I gotta tell you, I hjave been reading all this all day while on the road and just know therew are a lot of us wondering why "they" don't respond more positively to us.

I am personally on the fence here; letting go that is. If you ultimately let go and it looks like giving up, it is for sure a risk that our S's will think, "finally, guilt removed, I can now validate the fact that I am screwing this all up and get on with it", on the other hand, I hear everyone on letting love in so to speak by removing the guilt. That's the one I am really on the fence about. Isn't guilt or the spectre of guilt what keeps us from doing all sorts of stupid things in life??? Yes, it absolutely is so people feeling guilt is not all bad. It the idea that it blocks them from feeling affection that I agree with.

Just food for thought, no real advice or solution, crap, I was hoping after typing all this on my BB I would have some words of advice or a revelation.