Thanks, it is frustrating. I don't think she wants to discuss it or else she would've said something, it's been over a year and a half and she hasn't made any attempt to discuss anything. Everytime she said something was in response to my asking her and each time she said she has a lot of anger towards me. I said to her why does she have anger and hatred towards me, she said she doesn't hate me. I asked then why can't we be together? she said because she's forgiven me but she can't forget...so we just go around and around in a circle. Finally I gave up asking her anything a few months ago.
I see every nice action from her as if she's expressing her true feelings towards me but my friends say that she's definitely moved on and all she's saying is "this is what I want, we'll live two separate lives but lets just be civil about it".
I don't see how people can change like an on/off switch like that or maybe I'm just too naive and gullible.
Me: 32|W: 34|D: 3yo 1st bomb: Feb 2006 (left one day, came back a week later) 2nd bomb: Aug 2006 (moved out, ILYBNILWY) 3rd bomb: Apr 2007 (filed for divorce) 4th bomb: <her finger on the launch button>