Nomo-- You sound happy with your new lady--you deserve some of that. Man, watching you go through this whole sitch has been like speed-reading!! Me, slow as a turtle, with a head as hard as that damn shell...
I see how you have gotten control of your sitch--do you, too? YOU can now decide if she is worthy of the nomo we all love.
In my all-or-nothing state of mind, myself, I have been on match.com...
maybe just to boost pma, but you never know. Might be able to face all of this crap with a good man's arms around me, whispering in my ear again.