I think I'm doing OK on working on my anger/self-worth issues. It's the marriage thing I'm so in limbo on.
I went e-book crazy over the summer and I've been reskimming them recently. Almost all have the same basic approach and they ALL say some variation of:
Here it is -- the number one marriage-saving secret you absolutely must know: You Have to Have Respect for Yourself Before Your Marriage Can Blossom and Flourish.
That's from Nancy Wasson. Again, everything I've read has said some variation of that, but that's my favorite way that it's been said.
At any rate, my point -- working on you IS working on your M.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY